Venus In Furs is the only female identified exclusive BDSM night in St Louis. Come learn from experienced kinksters, take part in the open play area, and enjoy the best people watching around!
VIF is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male, and is a femme centered space. ALL women (trans & cis), femmes and butches alike, NB+GQ/fluid folx (who feel their space is in the leather women/leather dyke community) and those whose gender self-identification is other than male who are 21+ are welcome.
Folx are welcome regardless of level of experience AT WEDNESDAY EVENTS. Racism, transphobia, homophobia, lesbophobia, biphobia, classism, ageism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.
From now on, if you want to come to the Friday events, you needs to be vetted at the events on Wednesdays, or speak with the organizers.
VIF is one of the only spaces in St Louis, where male identified people are not allowed!
This is a pressure free environment with actual BDSM play, and a social area. The bar will be open as usual, and will be serving pizza.
So, don your favorite kinky gear, that special thing you’ve been waiting for the perfect event to wear, or keep it casual. Just leave your judgements (and the boys) at home and come have a good time with your kinky lady friends.