Venus In Furs is the only lady identified exclusive BDSM night in St Louis. VIF is an inclusive and sex positive space for all people whose gender self-identification is other than male, and is a femme centered space. ALL women (trans & cis), femmes and butches alike, NB+GQ/fluid folx (who feel their space is in the leather women/leather dyke community) and those whose gender self-identification is other than male who are 21+ are welcome. Folx are welcome regardless of level of experience. All such people are welcome. Racism, transphobia, homophobia, lesbophobia, biphobia, classism, ageism, size discrimination, and other forms of discrimination have no place here.
Friday events are now heavily vetted. Please attend a Wednesday event, or show up right at 9pm to be vetted for the event. We reserve the right to reserve attendance to those who have not been vetted.
This is a pressure free environment for experienced lady folk, and vanilla newb’s alike. There will be actual BDSM play, and a social area. The bar will be open as usual, and will be serving pizza.
*If you are a cisgender male ally, this GutterGlitter event is not for you, please consider purchasing a solidarity ticket for women and non binary folx low on funds.
So, don your favorite kinky gear, that special thing you’ve been waiting for the perfect event to wear, or keep it casual. Just leave your judgements (and the boys) at home and come have a good time with your kinky lady friends.
$5 cover. 21+